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Showing posts with label tyler and catelynn. Show all posts
Showing posts with label tyler and catelynn. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 25, 2011

Chelsey Handler...I would now have had a 20 year old kid...

Well I  never heard of Chelsey Handler and never watched E but due to the amount of press she is getting, she must be some teen star. She is slamming MTV's 16 and Pregnant for glamorizing teen pregnancy. I have tried to watch that show and am not a fan either but it seems that instead of glamorizing teen pregnancy, it shows how hard it is and that the couples always break  up and in many cases the teen moms are left in horrible shape. The language and behavior is pretty much beyond the pale. 

However, Catelynn and Tyler are the exception and I watched that episode many times.  They are the  couple that choose adoption for their baby girl. I have followed them and had the opportunity to meet them in person as I sit on the board of a non profit that educates teens about options in a teen pregnancy. Let me tell you, they are a sweet couple and especially Tyler who is wise beyond his years. They are still a couple , graduated from high school and attending college. They are now continuing to allow  MTV to follow their lives in Season 4. They  are generous and have a heart for helping others understand the truth about adoption. 

But enough of them....back to Chelsey H.  Nice looking girl who is pretty narcissistic . Guess most stars are. She thinks 16 and Pregnant is bad and has a personal reason to be offended.
"Or 16 and Pregnant. Getting rewarded for being pregnant when you’re a teenager? Are you serious? I mean, that makes me want to kill somebody.”
Strange choice of words..... Chelsey.  Kill somebody....Freudian slip??

“I had an abortion when I was 16. Because that’s what I should have done,” Chelsea blatantly states. “Otherwise I would now have a 20-year-old kid."
 Yes, just consider that. Your child would have been 20 now. You could have made the choice to make an adoption plan instead of choosing parenting. And this person would now be an adult. As Tyler and Catelynn would say, why should our child pay the price for our actions.  Catelynn revealed that she had an appt. at PP for an abortion but when Tyler did some internet research on what abortion was and showed Catelynn, the appt. was off. Just the difference between maturity and immaturity....in this it's all about me world.




Thursday, May 5, 2011

TN: Reality TV stars coming to panel presentation on teen pregnancy In Hendersonville, TN


Teen pregnancy on the rise in Sumner, experts say
Catelynn Lowell and Tyler Baltierra of MTV's "Teen Mom," addressed local high-school students when they visited Hendersonville in January of 2010. The two will speak at Long Hollow Baptist Church on Friday, May 13. They are pictured here with Heather Burns (left) of Decisions, Choices and Options. / FILE PHOTO
What: Teen pregnancy forum: What every parent should knowWhen: Friday, May 13; dessert and coffee at 6:30-7 p.m.; forum at 7 p.m. Where: Long Hollow Baptist Church, 3031 Long Hollow Pike in HendersonvilleHow much: Free and open to the public 
 
For more information, visit decisionschoicesandoptions.org.

In 2009, 257 Sumner County girls ages 10-19 dealt with an unplanned pregnancy.
This and other statistics have inspired a local pregnancy-awareness organization and a high school to c0-host a teen pregnancy forum with the topic of “What every parent should know” on Friday, May 13 at Long Hollow Baptist Church in Hendersonville.
The event aims to create a panel discussion between the public and guest speakers, such as Catelynn Lowell and Tyler Baltierra of the MTV series “16 & Pregnant” and “Teen Mom,” educators and experts, to ultimately address the life-changing consequences of teen pregnancy.
“Within the last two years, I have seen more pregnant girls than I’ve seen in nine years,” said Joi Wasill, founder of Hendersonville-based Decisions, Choices and Options, a teen-pregnancy educational program that is hosting the May 13 event.
“We really want to encourage parents of middle- and high school-aged students to come and learn how to talk to their children about the long-term effects a teen pregnancy can have on a family. Data shows that the No. 1 influence on teens’ sexual behavior is their parents.”
Tennessee ranks 8th in teen births
According to the latest available data from 2011 from the Division of Health Statistics’ Office of Policy, Planning and Assessment at the Tennessee Department of Health, 257 Sumner girls ages 10-19 were pregnant in 2009.
That number reflects national data from the National Center for Health Statistics that also reported in 2010 that Tennessee ranks eighth in the number of girls ages 15-19 who give birth in their teens, which excludes younger mothers.
Wasill is one of several volunteers who speak at 52 high schools in Sumner and six other Middle Tennessee counties about the three options available to pregnant teens: parenting, abortion and adoption. The idea for the forum, however, came from students in a family and consumer science class at Beech High School in Hendersonville.
“The students approached us about this,” Wasill said. “We did not approach them.”
For the past nine years, however, Wasill and her fellow advocates, have been addressing pregnancy with teens. And one of the most striking facts they have learned is the lack of knowledge of teen pregnancy consequences among children and parents.
“They don’t understand that if they decide to have sex, become pregnant and a parent, that will affect them educationally, financially and socially for the rest of their lives,” Wasill said. “One of the many things they need to be aware of is that the educational attainment for a teen mom is very bleak.”
Few teen moms earn college diplomas before age 30
Only 38 percent of teen mothers graduate from high school, and fewer than 2 percent earn college degrees by the age of 30, according to the National Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy.
“The daughters of teen mothers are three times more likely to become teen mothers themselves,” Wasill said. “And the sons of teen mothers have a 3 to 13 percent higher incarceration rate. They have so much misinformation about what’s going to happen, and that’s why the goal of our program is to educate parents, who can then educate their children.”

Friday, April 29, 2011

TN: Teen Reality stars Catelynn and Tyler coming for community forum


Catelynn and Tyler are coming to TN! 

It is amazing that these two teens from a small MI town have come into prominence. It all started when they agreed to appear on the MTV show "16 and Pregnant" and allowing cameras to record their pregnancy. What was different about them is that they choose adoption for their baby. They both had come from broken and dysfunctional homes and wanted better for their baby girl. They choose a couple through Bethany Christian Services and  an open adoption situation. The scene where Catelynn gave birth and released her daughter for adoption was one of the most moving scenes I have seen. Such courage and maturity!! Such love!!  Tyler was the rock! Always putting the needs of the child first. Mature beyond his years.

Well this couple  who are still together went on to graduate from high school and Tyler is in his first semester of college.  Since their daughter Carly was adopted by a couple living in a different state the visits are not often but precious.  Tyler and Catelynn went on to star in "Teen Mom" and are coming to Hendersonville  TN  to participate in a panel discussion and talk to teens and their parents on the issue of teen pregnancy....it's not always someone else's child.

Parents and teens....you are in for a treat and much needed education. 

Friday, January 29, 2010

Update! Tyler and Catelynn of 16 and Pregnant Fame are in Hendersonville, TN today!!

They will be filming at First Baptist Church in Hendersonville in the "Underground" area at 1PM today and is open to the public. They are the special guests of Decisions, Choices and Options http://www.decisionschoicesandoptions.org/ and will be special guests at a Christian Rock Concert tonight also at the Underground First Baptist Church in Hendersonville (weather permitting). Come and meet Tyler and Catelynn.

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