Making it to the Other Side of the Fence: Why I am now pro life and why I support defunding Planned Parenthood
By: Anne Taylor
In my early 20s, four months
into a relationship I found out I was pregnant. I was raised with sound values
from family and church, yet felt alone thousands of miles away from home while
attending college. I felt incredible shame that if family and friends knew of
the choices I’d made they’d be let down. This led me on a path of self doubt
that I did not know was possible. Fear is what it all comes down to and I have
learned that it is distortion that masks itself in many forms more often than
not.
Having no doctor at the time,
there was a simple solution for this pregnancy: Planned Parenthood. There
happened to be one just down the street from campus so I called and booked
an appointment with a counselor. Prior to meeting with the counselor, my
partner and I began to discuss various scenarios. Adoption sounded good. After
all, we barely knew each other.
When we arrived at Planned
Parenthood for our appointment, we were quickly sized up. “Adoption would not be a good course of action because more often than
not, the girl becomes too attached to the baby by the time she’s given birth.”
the counselor advised and continued to remind us we hardly knew one another.
My partner then inquired if their clinic performed any ‘termination’
procedures. My partner revealed to me
that he once took a friend to have an abortion and she seemed to have no
problems with it. “Well, yes!” the counselor responded enthusiastically. “We
can certainly do that for you, and in your situation it is probably best for the both of you.” she said with a grin. We
went on to ask more questions.